Hey! Are you going to marry….Are you searching for working partner….Are you thinking, if both of you will earn then there will never problems arise due to lack of money…..You can give all the best facilities to your children in this costly life…..The load of earning money divides and never put pressure on anyone….Yeah! You are right at your place….All this will happens, but Have you ever thought along with this what are the possible things going to happen…..May be the negative impacts of this…..You can get rich with money, but you are always lack of time…..Have you ever thought about your children….or you already decide that they can live with grandparents when you are not at home….And, After some years, they will grow up and can live alone at home…..or they get also busy that first they go to school and then arrive at 3 O’ clock and after that they will go to tuition classes….and when they going to reach home….it’s almost our time of arrival….or Do you think that, your wife would be a teacher and can reach home early and then care of children…...WOW! Really Amazing, I mean How intelligent you are...And, What to say about your Awesome planning…..Just sit and think, What do you really need….Do you really need to run behind money that much when both of you don’t have time for your children….When will you spent time with them…..When will you listen them, understand them….If you don’t give time, then How can they understand your importance, the importance and love of parents….Have you ever thought, if you left them with grandparents then they gets only attached with them not with you, and after their death, your children will feel alone, even both of you are with them, but still it doesn’t mean anything for them…..Because You never talk that way they want, They don’t trust you in the way they want….Money can only purchase the basic needs…..But, They want you more than these basic needs….Let’s suppose your child have fever some day, then who will take care of him, if you are thinking that one of you may take holiday that day, then you have to also think, if both of you have some important work and you can’t take leave, then what will happen…..Why don’t you understand, Children need Parent’s love, care and time….How can you forget, you also have a responsibility to build a strong relation with your children that they can trust you and can freely share their all emotions and thoughts….There is never a specific age and time till which, children need parents….You have to understand it….You have to realize...whenever they need you and at that moment any of you are not present, then what’s the meaning left of your presence in their life….It’s not only about children and parents….It’s also about both of the partners….How much time are you spending together….Will you remember the last time, when both of you sit together and have a peaceful and lovely talk…..or I would have to say that, No love is left between you people for each other….What will you do with this money, when you don’t get time to spend it for your enjoyment and happiness….when you don’t get time to go for a tour with your family….What happened to you….Do you really imagine and expect this type of life….If not, then why are you living like that….You are enough wise and You know very well what is good for your family….Take your time and think about everything and then Take your decision…..
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