Expectations and Trust - Blessing or Curse

 Everything is a trend now, "Never Expect" is also the one......We are not aware of the facts that, How our mentality and thoughts are affected by them, even we are not aware with the continuous changes in our lifestyle.....Making excuses and delay in work is our habit now......We never feel that we are somewhere wrong in our life, we are doing continuous mistakes......We are losing our abilities of trusting someone, Honesty and Loyalty getting extinct .....But, who cares, because we are not going to pay any attention on it......we feel everything is good, no need to change anything......But, sadly nothing is right.....We always say, "Never Trust Anyone", "Never Expect Anything"......Have you ever thought, Just because, someone breaks your trust, or you expect something from him, and he doesn't fulfill it......So, you decide to never trust, never expect.....How can you forget that, everyone is not same.......Let's see yourself, if you don't want anyone breaks your trust, may be also you don't want to break anyone's......if it is really so, then it never breaks.......Without Trust and Expectations, this world comes to an end.....The only thing depends is that, whom you are trusting, what are you expecting, with whom you expect........A Trustworthy person fulfills his promise.....And, also we have to understand every-time it is not possible for someone to serve you, or may be he himself in situations where he can't help himself, so how can you expect that he must have to help you at that moment.......But, we don't want to understand it, we only see he doesn't help me, when I needed.....Just because of some misunderstandings, you may loss a trustworthy one......First of all, Make yourself like one, what you expect from others......Expectation is one of the blessing in our life, may be it is like a thread which connect us to people along with trust......If we make expectations from ourselves, then how much good it is, every single time we will improve us.....We have to only change our thoughts and our assumptions, just because of some stupid trends, we start trusting on false things.......Try to understand the person in front of you, and also their situations.....It will definitely helps in strong bonding in relations.....Trust yourself....Make yourself trustworthy, so that anyone can trust you......If everyone do same, then we don't need to afraid, we don't need to care about trust issues......I hope, now you understand, how much important to make ourselves good first......And, Remember one thing, if someone breaks your trust and expectation intentionally, then it's not your mistake, it's his fault....he loses you, even he fails to understand their meanings, he doesn't know what life is, what it means......Don't care about this, you are right......Step Forward.....Have Trust.....Let's wrong ones to go in hell.....

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